October 2022 Newsletter

LGBTQ+ History, Halloween Tips, and More!
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  • October is LGBTQ+ History Month!
  • Intersectionality in Sex Education
  • Youth Advisory Board Connection
  • Disability-inclusive Halloween Tips!
  • LGBTQ+ and Disability Books
  • Upcoming Events

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October is LGBTQ+ History Month!


October is LGBTQ+ History month! Now, you might be thinking, “Cool, but what does that have to do with disability OR sexual health education?” The short answer: EVERYTHING!

By analyzing the data collected in the 2020 Behavioral Risk Factor Surveillance System (BRFSS), the Human Rights Campaign found that one in three (36%) LGBTQ+ adults reported having a disability. Additionally, more than 35% of cisgender LGBTQ+ adults and over half (52%) of transgender adults were identified as having a disability. In 2019, the Movement Advancement Project estimated that 3-5 million LGTBQ+ people have disabilities. 

When we look at the LGBTQ+ history movement, we cannot help but recognize some of the most influential icons were also a part of the disability community. 

Intersectionality in Sex Education
 

The intersection of LGBTQ+ history, the fight for equality, and disability cannot be ignored. But where does sexual health education fit into this? In 2020, Campbell et al. explored the intersection of sexual health education, disability, and sexuality. They concluded two things. First, many formal sex education programs are inherently ableist and heteronormative. They position “sex as a heterosexual act and disabled people as non-sexual” (Campbell et al., 2020). Second, “the failure to provide disabled people with adequate formal sex education negatively impacts their opportunities for sexual expression insofar as it compounds experiences of shame, stigma and isolation by reinforcing the expectation that sex occurs between two non-disabled, heterosexual persons” (Campbell et al., 2020). As it exists today, formal sex education promotes little inclusion - LGBTQ+ or disability. 

Looking at the SEICUS Sex Ed State Law annual report from 2022, only nine states*, or 18% of the United States, require that sex education include sexual orientation instructions and sexual health for LGBTQ+ youth. Even more alarming, is that while many states do not mandate inclusive education (or sexual health education at all), six states** specifically prohibit inclusive LGBTQ+ education. Virginia does not require schools teach sexual health, however, it is one of the states that requires that if sexual health is taught, it must promote heterosexual marriage. 

While the data surrounding the percentage of youths with disabilities who also identify as LGBTQ+ is lacking, if it is anything like the adult statistics one in three LGBTQ+ youth also identify as having a disability. Additionally, if as Movement Advancement Project suggests there are 7 -9 million LGBTQ+ individuals in the world and 3-5 million have disabilities. This means that 42% to 55% of persons with a disability are also LGBTQ+!

In order for our sex education to be disability-inclusive, it also needs to be LGBTQ+ inclusive. LGBTQ+ month and all its advocates and historical icons remind us that inclusivity is intersectional, that we are all human beings who have a right to comprehensive sexual health education!


* California, Colorado, Connecticut, D.C., Illinois, Maryland, New Jersey, Oregon, Rhode Island, Washington
** Florida, Louisiana, Mississippi, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Texas 

 

Resources throughout the newsletter are labeled as follows: 
[t]=text [v]=video [a]=audio [l]=list [w]=website

[w] Gender and Sexuality in Autism 

[w] Access All: Disability news and talk In this episode, Ben interviews three members of the disability community on their experiences with sexuality and education in the UK.


[w] Disabled Queer People are Being Erased 

[v] Nyle DiMarco & Chella Man Teach Queer Sign Language


[w] Activists and Events from Queer Disabled History This timeline was created by Maddie Fowler and Gracee Wallace to outline the intersection between the LGBTQ+ and disability community throughout history

[t] Advocating for LGBTQ Students with Disabilities Guide for parents/caregivers and educators supporting LGBTQ student with an IEP or 504 plan

[w] Blind LGBT Pride International 

[w] Rainbow Alliance of the Deaf

[v] Disability and Sexuality

 
Tip: Use YouTube's media player controls to make videos more accessible. Find out how at the links below: 
Youth Advisory Board Connection

Three Key Figures in LGBTQ+ Disability Ancestry

Did you know that the Supreme Court case that nationally legalized LGTBQ+ marriage equality was sparked by the marriage of a couple where one spouse had ALS, or that the first X gender marker on a US passport was issued to a disabled advocate? Throughout history, the LGBTQ+ and disability communities have shared rich overlap and solidarity. Below we share three of the countless LGBTQ+ people with disabilities who have fought for change in our communities. For more information on Queer Disabled History, please read our comprehensive article, written by members of YAB, at https://www.sexedva.org/dshn/news/queer-disabled-history. 

 


Image description: Frances Thompson is depicted in the only known representation of her. It is a black and white etched drawing on yellowing paper. She sits in a tasseled chair wearing a long sleeved dress and scarf and holding an open umbrella above her head. [38]
Frances Thompson (1840-1877) was a trans woman and activist who was born into slavery and walked with crutches due to cancer in her foot. While living as a free woman during the Memphis Riots of 1866, she and her roommate were beaten and sexually assaulted by white men and police officers. Afterwards, she became the first recorded trans woman in the US to testify before a congressional committee as she spoke out about the Memphis Riots. Ten years later, she was arrested and sentenced to work on a chain gang, and fell ill and died shortly after her release. Many documents containing information about her life were destroyed by state and government efforts, yet her activism and story living openly as a woman for nearly all her life is a critical piece of queer ancestry. [39, 40]
 

Image description: Frida Kahlo paints “Portrait of Frida’s Family,” while using assistive technology and laying on a bed. She wears her hair in a bun done up with ribbon and a child standing behind the bed gazes at her painting. A pot full of paintbrushes, stacks of books and papers, and a pile of pillows are visible in the background. [51]
Frida Kahlo (1907-1954) was a famous Mexican painter and bisexual woman with disabilities. She contracted polio as a child and was later involved in a car accident that damaged her pelvis and spine. [53] She lived with chronic pain and utilized assistive technology to create paintings from bed or wheelchair. She represented disability in multiple of her works and self-portraits, revealing how her experiences enriched her artwork.

“I used to think I was the strangest person in the world but then I thought there are so many people in the world, there must be someone just like me who feels bizarre and flawed in the same ways I do. I would imagine her, and imagine that she must be out there thinking of me, too. Well, I hope that if you are out there and read this and know that, yes, it’s true I’m here, and I’m just as strange as you.”

Image description: Marsha P. Johnson sits at a table smiling and holding a glass. She is wearing a pink dress, matching pink blush and eyeshadow, and a bouquet ring of flowers in her hair.
 
Marsha P. Johnson (1945-1992) was a Black trans woman famous for her critical role in the Stonewall uprising, and had both physical and psychiatric disabilities. Due to her multiple marginalized identities she was often wrongfully arrested and forced into medical treatments, which fed her drive for liberation from interconnected forms of oppression. [58] She co-founded Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR) with her friend Sylvia Rivera, which focused on trans and disability rights. She worked to stop forced psychiatric incarceration of LGBTQ+ people and put an end to conversion therapy. Her work was a cornerstone of the LGBTQ+ and Disability Rights movements today. [56]
Disability-inclusive Halloween Tips!

Everyone deserves the opportunity to have a fun Halloween experience, but Halloween celebrations are often difficult for children with I/DD. Here are a few tips for making your Halloween more accessible! 
Make Getting Treats Easier
Depending on where you live or are setting up your trick-or-treat spot, accessibility could be an issue. Instead of having trick-or-treaters walk up onto your porch to receive their treats, consider setting up a station on the sidewalk or at the bottom of the driveway. 
Offer non-candy Treats
If you are trying to find ways to make your trick-or-treat stop more inclusive, consider offering non-candy options. Some youth with disabilities can find it difficult or impossible due to dietary restrictions to eat certain candies. Providing a small toy or stickers can ensure that everyone is able to enjoy your trick-or-treat stop!
Look for Local Events
Halloween can be a fun, but scary time for children with I/DD. With costumes, lights, jump-scares, and all this in the dark (eek!) trick-or-treating can easily become overwhelming. Consider looking for daytime events in the community geared toward children. Trunk-or-treats or local Fall Festivals can be a great opportunity for your child to experience Halloween without all the sensory overload that comes with trick-or-treating in the dark. 
Comfortable Costumes
The comfortability of clothing can severely impact the Halloween experience for children with I/DD. There are a few ways to ensure comfort while trick-or-treating. First, play to their interests! If they are not able to communicate what they want to dress as, find something that reflects their current interests. Second, allow your child to wear the costume around the house (if they want to!) before Halloween. Lastly, add fabric or remove pieces that they maybe have indicated feel irritating. 
Check out these LGBTQ+ and Disability Books
Click on the underlined book title to learn more!
All the Things We Don't Talk About
by Amy Feltman

Morgan Flowers has been raised by a single, neurodivergent father. Their mother, Zoe, ran away to Europe before Morgan's first birthday. But now, Zoe is back after leaving her girlfriend Brigid. Julian, Morgan's father, and Brigid, the most unusual of pen-pals, bond over the love and loss of Zoe. Now, with Zoe back, both Morgan and Julian are feeling her charismatic pull once again. Will they become one big happy family? And what does Brigid have to say?
exile and pride book cover
Exile and Pride: Disability, Queerness, and Liberation
by Eli Clare

In this collection of essays, Eli Clare shares his experience as a disabled genderqueer activist and writer. His work weaves together politics, history, and his own experiences.
uncomfortable labels book cover
Uncomfortable Labels: My Life as a Gay Autistic Trans Woman
by Laura Kate Dale

This memoir explores Laura Kate Dale's experience growing up transgender, gay, and autistic. Laura uses her experiences with sexuality, gender, and disability to highlight both the unique and intersectional aspects of disability and sexuality. 
bodymap book cover
Bodymap
by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha

As a "queer disabled femme-of-color," Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha centers her poetry on queerness and disability justice. 
Upcoming Events

Every month we will highlight a few events relevant to disability-inclusive sexual health education. Follow our Google Calendar to view these and many more events, updated often!

Are you aware of or hosting an event you think would be relevant? Send/forward event info to dshn@jmu.edu!

Shenandoah Valley Pride Festival
  • "That’s right we are throwing a party!!!! We want to get the band back together!!! No matter how you take it, we can’t wait to be back on the Court Square for a return of community celebration. We will have performances from many of the community queens and the newly crowned Miss Gay Harrisonburg. So come out and have a great time and show love!!!"
  • October 8, 1 - 5pm @ Downtown Harrisonburg
  • Pride Festival Information

Elevatus: Support Healthy Sexuality for LGBTQ People with I/DD
  • This ONLINE training (via video conference) is designed for professionals, self-advocates, and sexuality educators, to better support the LGBTQ people with intellectual and developmental disabilities they work with, care about or teach, either in a one on one or class setting.
  • October 12, 11am - 6pm
  • Summit Information

LDA Learning Disabilities Summit
  • LDA will be hosting a three-part virtual summit focused on these critical issues: What are learning disabilities; Intervention for students with learning disabilities: What does the research say?; How do we diagnose LD? LDA has worked with our Professional Advisory Board, to identify speakers who will offer the most current, research informed thinking on these important topics. Several notable scholars, policymakers and school leaders have already made a commitment to participate in this three part summit.
  • October 11 & 24, November 4 
  • Summit Information

MidAtlantic ADA Conference
  • Sessions at the Mid-Atlantic ADA Conference closely align with several continuing education (CE) certifying organizations, including but not limited to AIA, HRCI, SHRM, and CRCC. Conference sessions are not pre-approved by these organizations. However, participants can receive a Certificate of Participation for CE self-submissions. Conference sessions are eligible for elective or foundation level credits for the ADA Coordinator Training Certification Program (ACTCP).
  • October 11 - 13, 8am - 7pm @ Hilton Alexandria Mark Center, Alexandria, Virginia
  • Conference Registration

ASCV Support Group for Caregivers of Teens and Adults
  • Our peer-facilitated ASCV Caregivers of Teens & Adults Support Group is a great opportunity for individuals who have a teen or adult on the autism spectrum to ask questions, share resources, and connect with other caregivers.This month, we will be joined by Staci Carr of VCU's Autism Center for Excellence.
  • October 17, 6-7pm
  • ASCV Support Group Info

#HealthyTeen22 by Healthy Teen Network
  • At #HealthyTeen22, we’ll cultivate healing—inwardly and outwardly. We’ll reflect on this young decade’s renewed calls for racial justice and remarkable technological growth. And we’ll share how embracing flexibility and ambiguity liberated us to try new things.
  • October 17 - 19 @ Miami, Florida
  • #HealthTeen22 Registration

Children's Mental Health Advocacy Conference
  • The virtual Lives in the Balance Children's Mental Health Advocacy Conference focuses on current pieces of legislation in the U.S. and Canada: The Ending PUSHout Act, the Counseling Not Criminalization Act, the Stop Institutional Child Abuse Act, Section 43 of the Criminal Code in Canada, and numerous state bills. Speakers will describe these bills, review the research related to punitive, exclusionary practices, describe alternative methodologies, and discuss how to advocate for these bills. This conference is free to attend.
  • October 21, 8:45am - 4:15pm
  • Advocacy Conference Registration

PEATC Sexual Health and Wellness Workshop for Youth with Disabilities
  • If you find it uncomfortable to talk with your child about sexuality and puberty, you’re not alone. Most parents do. However, being comfortable talking about this with your child is so important, as these conversations are critical to your child’s health and safety. They help your child with a disability develop self-care skills, cultivate social skills, gain an understanding of appropriate behaviors, increase personal safety, and work toward becoming a more independent adult. 
  • This training has TWO sessions. Registrants should plan to attend both the October 24th and 25th virtual sessions.
  • October 24 - 25, 6-8pm
  • PEATC Sexual Health and Wellness Registration

Elevatus: Wait, what? You want to talk to me about sexuality? 
  • This webinar will explore tips and tools for addressing sexuality one-on-one with the individuals you work with . We will explore why this topic can be difficult to approach and useful tools that will help you become more comfortable and confident and communicate about this sensitive topic.
  • October 26, 2-3pm
  • Elevatus Registration

Special Olympics Virginia: Fall Championships
National Sex Ed Conference
  • The online conference includes access to 25 or more recorded webinars, plus video streaming for all six live keynotes, and breakout special interest groups and networking sessions. You must be age 18 or older to register for the online conference. The in-person event is limited to 300 registrants, keeping us safe with social distancing. In-person registrants will have the same access as online registrants, plus educational games, networking activities, special interest groups, watch parties, and more. Three of the keynote speakers will be in-person in Atlantic City. A light breakfast and lunch will be provided each day of the conference for in-person guests. You must be age 21 or older to register for the in-person conference.
  • December 13 - 15, 8am - 5pm @Atlantic City (also virtual)
  • Registration for Sex Ed Conference
Happy Spooky Season!
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